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Sunday, March 16, 2008

3 day weekends don't work for us

By the end of a 3 day weekend my husband and I are at each others throats,its not that the love isn't there its just 72 hours with few breaks,for some strange reason it takes its toll.
I'm sad to say we have NEVER made it through a 3 day weekend without an argument of some sort and believe me we FIND things to bicker about,I just had to share this.

me:(standing at the dryer) MERRELL !!! Why is all your stuff on top of the dryer?Geez this is a daily thing, its like the dryers your personal pocket,I swear you find things to put on the dryer
him:(laughing)why use pockets when you have the top of the dryer?
me:(laughing)oh shut up, can you get me a napkin and wet it please, I need to wipe this down
(he brings me ONE square)
me:Ok sweety were gonna do something crazy right now were gonna use something called "logic" I'm trying to wipe down the washer and dryer...logic says this would not be enough,can you PLEASE bring me a napkin.(were incredibly sarcastic with each other)
him:FINEEEE
(He brings me ONE more square)
him:here
(I give him an are you kidding me look)
him:WHAT you said bring me A napkin
me:Fine, can you put this in the kitchen(hand him something) I mean the C O U N T E R R R
(he gets mad walks away)


After this we actually had an argument about being literal, and whether or not he knew I meant one napkin or not ,no, I'm not kidding.The argument eventually got so stupid,we were laughing as we yelled.Eventually we just got distracted and stopped.

Who created 3 day weekends?

**You know whats weird, after I wrote this I thought about it and was tempted to delete it.I don't know why I guess I don't want to give the impression of a "bad" marriage.But I don't want to be one of "those" people.You know the ones that smile in your face and pretend everythings perfect in the world and their shit don't stink when its the farthest thing from the truth.YES, my husband can work a nerve and I know for a fact I can get on his nerves but were human,we get annoyed and fight about stupid things.It doesn't change anything, I love my snuggie doo :P.This is my blog and I'm going to talk about the good the bad and the dumb.I'm not going to give the impression that I'm someone that I'm not.**

oh also have to add I'm not speaking of any of my friends or family for some reason whenever I write something people assume I'm attacking someone
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5 comments:

Kathy said...

I'm glad this blog was not about ME for once. : )

I'm Not Skippy said...

We're the opposite. We get along really well when we spend days together. It's not until we go back to work and only spend evening together that we want to kill each other. We're one of those weird couples that gets along really well on long road trips.

All couples fight. Couples who don't should worry. And I think I've pissed off some friends and family myself with my blog. It happens.

Jenera said...

Oh please, if you don't have arguments, even silly ones, you don't have a marriage IMO. My hubby and I bicker over STUPID things. But luckily we get over it quickly and that's the key.

Our family is complete said...

I have to laugh because this is me and Mike sometimes. ha ha. He just had 6 days off in a row and I was so ready for him to go back to work and I know he was to. He had enough of the kids and was at his last nerve. Don't get me wrong he loves the boys but Carter's whines is enough to drive anyone up the wall. My beef with DH and always causes an argument is when he leaves tissues in his pockets and get run through the wash and dryer. I have asked him multiple times to not leave them in his clothes and he tells me that I should look before putting his clothes in the wash. Grrrr I said soon you will be doing your own. Though I like when I find money in the wash. I consider it my tip for doing it. he he.

Amy

~Joe said...

LOL, same here Amy!